The other day I saw a TikTok that addressed the ways we self destruct. The guy in the video was saying that he self destructs by saying negative things to himself. This was specifically destructive for him because his love language was words of affirmation. In the comment section, people were making their own connections.Continue reading “Informational”
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Maybe it Wasn’t Ready
That blog post you wanted to publish? Maybe it wasn’t ready. Maybe other words would have flown out if you had waited. Instead of putting something out just for the sake of it, spend some time waiting.
Not a Lot
of people talk about what it feels like to be the friend who does not have a baby when your best fried decides to have one. How lonely you feel when your friend has a baby, not because you want a baby yourself, but because now, things between you and your friend have changed. YouContinue reading “Not a Lot”
A Thought on Thoughts
I wonder if all thoughts need to be taken into consideration. I imagine the horrible ones, the ones telling you to do something bad or ugly, you should probably disregard. Or perhaps you shouldn’t. Because instead you can try to understand where this horrible thought is coming from. And it can help determine if somethingContinue reading “A Thought on Thoughts”
From Now On
I will just tell myself that He is Just Not that Into You whenever I start falling for a person who may or may not even like me back. Like the guy I see on a daily basis, the one I’ve had a massive crush on since the first time I saw him. Instead ofContinue reading “From Now On”
Ballon Catastrophe
Imagine you are walking out of the store, with your brand new purchase of a single balloon. As you near the exit, the double doors slide open for you and as you step confidently forwards, you hear a pop. A loud pop that scares not only you but the fellow people around you. You areContinue reading “Ballon Catastrophe”
In my head
I always feel like a deer caught in the lights when I start to frequent a place so often. Whether that be the workplace, or a gym, or a dance class. You start seeing the same faces week after week and although you are not family or friends, or even acquaintances in some instances, theseContinue reading “In my head”
Understanding
I used to think that love was enough to keep a relationship alive and healthy. I know now that that is not the case. The three most important words are not ” I love you,” but ” I trust you.” And with trust, we can build a case. Trust is where the heart needs toContinue reading “Understanding”
It Takes Strength
Joining a new gym can be a tricky thing. You’d want to know if you are going mainly for the free weights, the cardio machines, or for the fitness classes. Maybe they even have some cool amenities that you keep eyeing, like their tennis courts or sauna. Maybe you just like the pool, because youContinue reading “It Takes Strength”
People want to know
When someone dies, people want to know, how? People want an explanation. They want to know what the persons last few months were like – especially if they died of an illness. They want to know, did they love me? Did they want to hear my voice one last time? Did they want to talkContinue reading “People want to know”
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